Talking about your hard limits will prevent any unpleasant surprises. And talking about your fantasies can be a fun way to get in the mood! Don’t be afraid to go into detail about what you think would be fun to try, from positions to accessories to role-play. If possible, you’ll want to practice a little extra hygiene as well.
Anal sex can present the possibility of a show-stopping mess, and many people prefer to clean themselves out with a douche (which cleans the immediate area inside your butt) or an enema (which goes deeper).
Just don’t make a frequent habit of this - once a week is probably about right - because you can irritate your tissues if you’re constantly washing yourself out. If you’re doing frequent deep-cleans and you’re feeling more pain or internal friction than you like, it’s possible you’ve gone a little too tidy.
